Caring is an important aspect of making moral decisions, yes? You are more likely to save your girlfriend from an attacker than you are some random person on the street. I think for most people this is correct. Does this view of ethics close us off from people that we don't know? I think it possibly could. Though I do not think it intentionally does so. I think the concept of caring relationships, simply tries to describe and recognize that when you care for someone that relationship changes as do the rules that would normally apply to ethical descisions. Sometimes it is not about what is right or wrong, but what is right or wrong for that person. If you have a depressed friend, telling them straight up about their depression and how you feel they are just trying to get sympathy is a good way to help throw them off the top of a building. Sometimes you have to approach things differently depending on the person, depedning on the situation. You may even be able to argue that there is no one way to handle an two situations the same. I think the key point to the article is to explain that to be a carer, you are not just caring for someone, but always have their best intentions in mind in helping them become better people. I think one issue it fails to address, is how do you decide what is right. You can say to care you must do things that help a person, but who is to say how a care decides to help is right? It describes a mother who lets their kid eat junk, is soothing when the child is ill, fails to get him immunized, etc. and says this mother is not a carer. That is fine, I don't disagree with this point, but I want to know why. I want to challenge why things are right and wrong and how do we decide how to care for someone. In the end, I don't think this is really an alternate way of looking at ethical problems, but merely a subdivision of the previous two schools of thought. Simply a way of applying it. In the end you still need some kind of guideline to tell you what is right or wrong, and that either comes from yourself, or from a source outside yourself.